“A cheater will always be a cheater” – FACT or MYTH?

I’m watching FRIENDS (a comedy TV Series) and Rachel (played by Jennifer Aniston) said this to Ross (played by David Schwimmer).


Now I wonder if this is really true. Or just a myth that a bitter ex-partner created.


Of course, guys will say a big “NO” into this. Well who would admit this, right?


But what is really the real score on this? I want to be open-minded to the possible reasons like, it depends on the situation. But then I realized that it’s not. Maybe the right question in here is “Why do they have to cheat in the first place?”


If they’re not happy with their partners, why don’t they just tell them upfront the real reason and leave?


It’s difficult and painful, but its way better than cheating.


I honestly don’t know the answer on this. If you have a better idea or opinion on this, please share it through commenting. I would love to hear it.


Failed Proposals

My opinion about this video that I watched at Yahoo! News last night: Failed Proposals

We all know that a man is very reluctant to leave his bachelor’s type of lifestyle.

But once he decided to propose a marriage to his girlfriend, you’ll know right then and there, he’s serious to spend the rest of his life with her.

He’ll make it as special as possible for sure.

Like go out for a dance night and ask the DJ to pass the microphone on you, so you can dedicate a song and propose on the dance floor.

Hire a skywriter to spell out your proposal for everyone around to see.

Take her at the place you first met and gather your family and friends, so they can witness the magical moment when you propose.

That’s the trend these days, the “cheesier” the more romantic it is, no doubt about that.

But what if the girl says “NO” then walks away after he raised the question?

What will happen next?

How this ‘supposed-to-be’ a magical and romantic moment can turn into the worst nightmare to a man’s life?

What could possibly go wrong to these proposals?

I don’t know the answers but imagining the embarrassment a man could receive after, it’s horrible!

Some may even say: “That girl is heartless!”, “What a bitch!”, and so on.

But let’s think again.

Is she really being a bitch?

For me, there’s always a reason why a woman will turn down an important proposal like this.

*And this is all my opinion.

1) They only been dating for weeks, months, or short span of time;

2) They have “trust” issues – e.g. the guy cheated on her but she give him another chance;

3) She’s not seeing herself spending the rest of her life with him;

4) Or simply, she’s not ready.

These are just some of the millions of reason out there.

But if you’re a guy and you want to make sure you will hear nothing but “Yes” when you propose to your girl, it’s not a bad idea to think about these things and consider it before you ask that one important question.

I’m not saying, I’m right. But if you have something to share or add, leave it on the comment box. I love to hear ideas from all of you.

Daydreaming Wednesday (And Yes I know it doesn’t rhyme)

I saw my crush wearing a black shirt today with a caption on it.


I stared at it for a while and then noticed that he’s looking at me and said “Are you done reading it?”


I casually replied “No” then pause. Look straight on his cute face (NOTE: And realized that his face is not like the shape of a mango or cashew!)


“I just want to hug you.” I continued then walked away.


To my surprise, he followed me on my desk and said “Hi… I just want to say, yes you can.”


Without hesitation, I hugged him so tight.


*Reality check

How I wish I will have the courage to say those words to him (without fainting) and everything I wanted will magically happen for REAL!


HOOK-UP CULTURE: Is it for you or not?

Because of Ayin, I was able to watch this video: THE PROMISE AND PERILS OF HOOK-UP “CULTURE” by Gwen Sharp, PhD, Jun 21, 2011

We all know that casual sex is fun and a no-string attach kind of relationship. But as I watched the video, I learned that it is not.

It’s more complicated than you expected it to be.

And it’s NOT for everyone.

But what interest me in here is not the casual sex itself. It’s about how the speaker explains everything.

But from all of it, these three things stands out:
1) On how the speaker explained about what women wants… What women REALLY wants in sex.

Women wants one of these three things during sex… not all of it, just one and that is: Woman want it to be meaningful, feel empowered, or wants pleasure.

From here, I admit it’s true.

Women deserve to feel one of these things.

I know empowerment is not that easy to give but at least give them the PLEASURE they deserve.

Once you watched this video you’ll be shocked on the percentage on how many women that actually gets PLEASURE during sex.

Boys and men… this is a must-watch!

2) The speaker even said that HOOK-UP is safer, emotionally. Because you don’t have to deal with complication, fights, and arguments that a relationship has.

I don’t agree with her but looking at her datas, no one can blame her.

And this lead me to what I said earlier…. IT’S NOT FOR EVERYONE.

And 3) Guilt beyond imagination.

I agree. Hook-up is a fun thing to do to freely express your sexuality and learn at the same time.

But the consequences tells you otherwise. And it’s not easy to deal with your conscience.

“HOOK-UP” is definitely not for me because I want it to be meaningful… I want a relationship which HOOK-UP can’t offer.

If you want to know more or want to watch the video by yourself, click the link: http://vimeo.com/21655142#at=19

For other reference, visit these links below (provided by Ayin):
1) http://thoughtcatalog.com/madeline-harrington/2014/03/7-realities-of-hooking-up-that-we-need-to-get-over-and-accept-already/
2) http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/evolution-f-buddy-pros-cons-friends-benefits-situation/

You’ll learn a lot from here.

17 Reasons Why 27 Is The Weirdest Age

17 Reasons Why 27 Is the Weirdest Age – MY PERCEPTION

Posting this article obviously means that I’m 27 years old.
I’m proud of it.
I may not be as successful as everyone else… But in my opinion, I’m rocking it!
I do what I love to do.
And I’m surrounded with good people.
For me, that’s what important.

I’m writing this because I agree for the most part of this article.
27 is really one of the critical age in a people’s life.
You will begin to feel if there’s something missing in your life.
I suddenly remember my birthday.
My sister asked me if I feel something different.
Like whining on things that I didn’t have, if I felt incomplete, or unsatisfied with my life.
I immediately said ‘No’.
I didn’t know if I just answered this to avoid deep conversation.
Or just simply, I don’t have any unsatisfied business with my life.

Well back to the topic.
Most of the factors mentioned in here, is so true! Career, relationship, adulthood, and more.

Except for the pregnancy part.

I don’t have a boyfriend right now. So if I got pregnant, my parents will SURELY be not happy about it.
They might have a heart attack… or I’ll wish I’ll have one when I reveal it.

Well whose parents will be happy, right?


I just hate when people says stupid things regarding of being old, like: I need to get married, have kids, and so on. As if these are the only options they have.

The word OLD is not an indication that you have to get married and have kids.

As a woman, I understand because a woman’s biological clock is running out of time. It’s one to consider but for me, in my opinion, the real question here is, ARE YOU READY FOR IT? (Both for men and women.)

Think of the responsibilities it has, contemplate, then ask yourself:
Are you ready for the responsibilities as a wife, a mother, or a father?
Are you financially capable to handle a family? (For men)
Are you sure this is what you want and not only because your family/friends are pressuring you to do such things?

If you answer, yes to all, then good for you.
But for those who have doubts, take your time.
Everything has its proper time… and as others says it, in God’s time everything will happen.

This post is simply a wakeup call to all.
That we need to be happy with our life as if it will be the last.
Well this post really says that “you will meet your untimely death during this year.”

The word OLD will always means, to be mature and responsible in all my action, decisions, priorities in life, and to my family.

And if this is my last year on Earth, I’m sure I will leave this world with no rejections.

So, if you’re 27… Rock your 27th year. Be old. Be mature. Embrace your life. Have a happy year!

Thought Catalog


  • Saying “mid-to-late-twenties” is awkward and makes you realize our inclination to categorize and generalize our identities has gotten too extreme and specific.
  • And if you don’t die, you’ll wonder if it’s a sign you aren’t talented or accomplished enough.
  • 27 is the first year you start getting offended if people don’t card you for booze. First, you were underage and afraid to get carded. Then you turned 21 and it was thrilling. At 24, people stopped asking for your ID as often and that was novel and made you feel mature. By 27, fuck that. You better ask to see my ID or I’m going to assume I look ancient.
  • You realize that if you got pregnant/got someone pregnant at this age, not only would your parents not be super pissed at you, they…

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